Blooming adult and other adult activities

While growing up, I always found myself to be a dork. Socially and physically I was clumsy and awkward and never made much progress. And then suddenly in my 40's I finally started to bloom. And I like it. A lot. So as I bloom, I'm going to tell you about it, right here on these pages.

Sports, an activity that used to send shudders down my spine now look like a lot of fun to play. Hiking and biking and swimming and kayaking and rock climbing and a ton of other activities. Not too much for team sports, but I did spend a season on the gay / lesbian softball league. The more activities I do, the more I want to do, plus the benefit of meeting other guys who like to do them too.

But sex is where I've truly started to bloom and come alive. I used to joke that I couldn't get laid in a bordello, and it is true that I went to a bath house in my younger days and still came away without doing any deeds. Throughout those years many times I would easily find myself in the right place at the right time and still not ever connect.

But a couple of years ago my mind started to wander to who I had actually gotten into the sack with and what had happened. And I came to a surprising realization that even after getting naked with guys, the actual climax to the event only happened about 1/2 the time. Now how pitiful is that?

I finally said to hell with all that. Unhealthy lifestyle, married to work, no sex, all that crap had to go. First up, quit smoking tobacco. Over 20 years of that habit, and it took a little bit to get over it, but I did with the help of The Easy Way to Quit Smoking on audio books, and finally with Chantix. (I loved and miss the dreams from Chantix).

Smoke cessation led to weight gain, especially in the belly. You ever see a skinny-as-a-rail guy with a big beer belly? That led to watching what I was eating, plus start lifting weights. After losing the belly but gaining 35 pounds of muscle, the body started looking real good. Putting pictures of it up on gay.com turned out to be very popular. I think they liked the lean, muscular, just the right amount of furry chest and clean back look.

So that of course led to meeting guys, doing a hookup every now and then. A little more than a year later it's what I'm still doing today. But I'm maturing in what I do, how to go about getting and doing it, and the experiences that come from sex.

And that's what this blog is going to be about. When I've done the deeds with another guy, I'll write about it here, some of the details, what I learned, what was fun about it and what was not. Maybe this will be steamy stories, or maybe just text.

Let's see what happens....